I haven't quite gotten you sorted out yet.
He who will not be named is living with me. I think it will be for a while.
That really is ok, though. We get along fine. I wish he would use the recycling rather than just throwing everything away, but I think there will come a time to bring that up.
I'm not sure I feel as strongly about him as I did before; mostly as a result of crushed emotional angst. I've put myself out there and to him more than enough to be hurt, and to know that for the sake of my heart and of my sanity, I have to back off. He wants Jan Jacob Jingleleheimer Schmidt, and until he gets her or she tells him to piss off, I suspect he will chase her. I'm sure she's very nice. I just wish she would go away.
Ok, I don't. I wish her life settled itself out, and I could just live happily ever after with the guy I've been chasing for more than a year.
It does appear that he isn't the only contender these days, though.
There is WLQ, who does have a certain something, but seems to have an according amount of crazy too. She's fun, funny, and attractive even though she would tell you she's not. However, I'm not sure that we'd make it, and I really value her as a friend.
New on the scene is Lonnie. No, not Lonnie Anderson. He's nice, and I met him online. He's just moving out of his ex's house in Kelowna though, so I think adding him to my life in a relationship way might eventually (or quickly) hurt me.
Any advice?